Annie's Mailbox is one of the successors to Ann Landers' column, and they gave a response that made my skin crawl. A woman wrote in to say her brother, visiting from another country, made "inappropriate sexual advances" toward her daughter's 12 year-old-girlfriend. "Annie" (Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar) advised her to not cut off all contact with the brother even though he refuses to seek treatment. Apparently because he's overseas, what he does to little foreign girls is none of his sister's business.
Given that he's engaging in behavior only tolerable among UN peacekeepers, I'd say Annie is off her rocker. The woman's whole family should issue an ultimatum, get help or we'll warn the local authorities.